"Am single and am complete"

Yes, I am scared. I was so used to sharing everything. I was so used to having someone around.

But the reality is I am my own person, and if I can’t enjoy being single, how can I enjoy being with someone else?

So I got talking with others (single people).. Surely I wasn’t the only twenty-plus-year-old person who felt uncertain about his new singleness. I needed to find proven ways to be happy as a single adult .. So I started to read books about being single n happy..

During my research I found out that being single gives me time to be myself and to be with myself..

It brought me to a place of reflection, accepting the me in me..

And again I gotta let go of the past memories of my past relationships, they are memories I cherish but I need to stop clinging to them to live a better life today n tomorrow also...

During those years in relationships, I lost money, health n I lost love, to me then I had lost everything in life. But I have to believe that I will eventually have the things I lost, but for now I’m taking this time to enjoy myself and complete myself...
Being single does not have to mean being afraid to love. My heart has been bashed, bruised, and broken. But I don’t feel traumatized, and I know I will love again. Hopefully the next someone will treasure and treat my heart with love and respect..

And during my research, I got to know that am not alone because I am single, I have family and friends

I am so proud and lucky to have a supportive mother, she's my sanity and my light..
And I believe I am one of the most luckiest person on earth because I’m also fortunate to have wonderfully good few friends who are always there with open arms, ready to listen and support me..
Sometimes being in a relationship can make you lazy about developing yourself. You can get so comfortable that your goals take a back seat., so being single is a call for you to focus and develop yourself by yourself..

When you’re single, it prompts you to look deep inside yourself and identify the person you really want to be..
I believe that everything in life is a process. When something dramatic and fast hits us, it will take time to process it and start over.

I am starting over.

As a newbie in singlehood I still have a lot to learn, understand, and explore. I sometimes need to be reminded to be grateful for what I have...

When something bad happens, we tend to concentrate on the negatives, forgetting that there must be something positive hidden somewhere in the havoc...

I found a lovely quote in a book I was reading last night “To see a rainbow, one has to pass a storm.”

I realised that, The more value I add to myself, the more value I will bring to someone... Your purpose in life is not in that relationship u r or u want to get into.. The purpose is in u..

And lastly, the book of proverbs 24:3-4 says.. " through wisdom a house is built and by understanding it is established, by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches..

So be yourself and get wisdom, get understanding and knowledge first... Remember love isn't the answer always..

Am single and am complete
#elspeaks #abetterversionofman

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